# Dating someone 20 years older than you

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You must love your body and inner-self without limit, make YOUR love for yourself overflow upon your heart, in order to love another without end… lovingly without bound. Is it any different from liking a certain hair color? Still, I had questions about whether an age-gap, between two people at such different stages in life was a feasible endeavour. We do have a plan for the future financially as well.\
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He is now my colleague as dad has retired and we are very much in love. But anyway, for caballeros — 1 Chivalry. Now that I have been single for awhile I asked if he wanted to meet up again. Him: Oh, I had turntables in the late 80's. Like the fact he lives 170 miles away and has children I am yet to meet. But we responsible have to ignore it because we are happy and that's what matters. Girls get a head-start by marrying older men, as it affords them a similar or better lifestyle than they were used to while living with their parents. He knows how much time and work this takes- and how much idea- and he'll be there with me every step of the way.

We are seriously in love and I am the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. This is great for me, since I am a whirlwind during the week and it balances me out.\
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**Leave a Reply** - I'm holding out for 100. Despite all your differences, it is the willingness to talk that keeps the flame burning bright.\
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However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him. You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old. If you're an inexperienced drinker who feels it after 2 bottles of Mike's Hard, that benefits him, not you. Among the biggest reasons that he likes you is because you're young. But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first. Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him. And that's all about him, not about you. And if he's your boss, the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt. Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end. There's probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. Don't stick around long enough to find out why. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships. You'll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above. Next thing you know, he's your closest friend as well as your boyfriend — which creates a co-dependent dynamic that's bad for any relationship. Whether or not you tell your parents about him or not, it's a lose-lose. If not, the sneaking around, lies and secrets will strain your relationship. And if you tell them, you'll deal with all-out fights. This is probably a pattern for him. No matter how special he insists you are, the chances are that he's been dating younger girls for years. Yes, he might have sex with you and then bail. I know hearing that is like sticking a fork in your chest and ripping your heart out. Sleeping with him might be a bigger emotional deal for you than you think. And it doesn't mean you're weak or naïve— it just means that you value yourself. Which is mature, by the way. If he's married, he's not going to leave his wife for you. Which is one of those things where, yeah, it could happen, it has happened, but asteroids also hit the Earth occasionally and we all still leave our houses without wearing full-body protective Plexiglass domes. He might be running from a bad relationship with a woman his age. If he had a nasty breakup with or for older men, a nasty divorce from someone in his demographic, there's a good shot that's why he's with you — someone who, ostensibly, can't hurt him. But he can hurt you. It's like a Chain of Pain up in here. It's great how you guys are on the same emotional level, right! He's in a different generation than you; he shouldn't be a decade behind emotionally. That's like valuing a 30-year-old because he has the math aptitude of a middle schooler. He gets along so well with your friends! It's probably not going to last. Let me rephrase that: It probably shouldn't last, because as you get older, you'll change which is normal and great so don't fight it! It's the emotional version of going from breast buds to boobs! If he ends it because you're too young, let him. That means he's actually a decent guy. And maybe somewhere down the road, things will be different for both of you. But the only way for that to happen is to let it end when it's supposed to. Follow Anna on Images via Fox.
